Blooming Voices Podcast
Do you listen to all the experts on podcasts and think, “no wonder they’re experts; they’re awesome, they’re smart, they’re....” Stop right there! You’re awesome!You have a story to tell, and there really is no one like you. Embrace your story. Celebrate yourself. Of course we all have room for growth, and no one is ever done growing. Just because you don’t know the answer to something today doesn’t make you a loser or does it? Naaa, of course it doesn’t! It makes you a human on life’s journey, just learning new things day to day! The more you know, the more you know what you don’t know. You're a little bud in the process of blooming... ready to share your truth and grow.Join two halves of two twin pairs as we share inspiring stories and a variety of perspectives about identity. We talk about our own unique backgrounds and how it unravels in the pursuit of finding identity, individuality, and an authentic voice. Religion, confrontations, twin questions, equality, being voice over artists, entrepreneurship, travel, movies... nothing is off limits! A true variety of topics and questions is how we grow best.
Blooming Voices Podcast
Episode 19 - Dating
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Jordan Drayer and Dalia Ramahi
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Season 2
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Episode 19
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Jordan shares some recent dating experiences, and the twins discuss some dating advice, dating as twins, how the stories we tell ourselves can limit us, and more.
Takeaways
- Dating as a twin is different, and we aren’t always good at small talk…
- It’s good to be vulnerable in some ways but read the room and don’t put all your baggage on someone right up front.
- Having a list of personality wants for your future loved one helps in manifesting them.
- There’s really no rush in dating.
- Sometimes dating feels like a chore; try to find ways to make it fun for you. Maybe you at least discover a new restaurant.
- Why do you want a relationship? Is it to impress someone else, a fear, a challenge to yourself?
- Twins without their twins naturally look for a “replacement.”
- What are you missing or feel like you can only find in another person? Try to find that in yourself.
- When making a life change, evaluate where the motivation is coming from, such as fear, growth, boredom, etc.
- Working a new person into the established family (ie brother-in-law) can take time, and this is okay.
- Stories of lack or unworthiness that we tell ourselves do hurt us.
- If the worst case scenario does happen, deal with it then, and even then it’s only one moment in time.
- Even people who hustle all the time can’t control the end result; we can’t control anything outside ourselves.
- Things can be as temporary or long as you want, but also read the other person: are they making an effort to be with you or not?
- You decide if someone or something is worth your time.
- Be open to new ways of dating, but feel free to do what makes you most comfortable. Have fun with it too!
Links
- Five Love Languages - https://www.5lovelanguages.com/
- Twinning - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/twin-dilemmas/201711/your-own
- Stories we tell ourselves - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JOujk6weKjA
- https://zenhabits.net/narrative/
- Law of Attraction - https://www.verywellmind.com/understanding-and-using-the-law-of-attraction-3144808
- Law of Oneness - https://oursubconsciousmind.com/the-law-of-divine-oneness/
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